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This is going to sound very trite, especially coming from someone who has been here for three years now, but I have a friend, a very good friend, who won't let me get to her feet.
I have convinced her on occasion for a foot massage (once after it was followed by a full-body massage). She is really careful when it comes to massages and whatnot nowadays (she has been hurt a LOT and i mean a LOT). She was even so tired that upon asking her to masage/lick her feet, she said YES to both, and yeah, that was amazing.
What's worse is this girl is extremely sexually open and expressive.
How can I get to explore her feet more without making her feel awkward
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most gals think of playing with their feet as an intimate thing. and being just friends.. that is a challenge to get to.
best bet, considering you mentioned she's been hurt a lot, let her know how you'd like to be with her feet and then.. just let it ride. if she's ok.. she'll be open with you in her time.. if not.. let it go..
you don't want to accidently hurt her and prove to her that even good guys like you can hurt.
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well if shes been your close friend that long then she should know how serious it is for you. as your friend she shouldnt feel threatened by you. also im sure she knows you wont hurt her. just be yourself and as friends if the 2 of you are mature about it it should be just fine.
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your best bet is be gentle, comment on how pretty her feet are and see how she reacts, most girls are very flattered by this and let you openly admire their feet.
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"Get to her feet"? Funny. I find it interesting that alot of guys with foot fetishes don't put thier fetish on the same level as what mainstream guys are into i.e. boobs, ass ect. If someone asked "My friend has a nice rack and i'd like to get to it" how would that sound? A bit odd right? Look at it like this instead. She's a really good friend and you're attracted to her. You'd like to change the relationship into something romantic with all the perks. So the real problem is going from the "friend zone" to the "potential hookup/boyfriend zone". A very very tough task. Done much easier however if you've never chased her and started things off as platonic. If you chased her and settled for being just her one of her "friends" i'd say cut your losses and don't try to pursue anymore. It won't work. I've been with my fair share of women and i'd say that as long as they're attracted to you or you've pleased them sexually you can do what ever you want to thier feet(within reason). Theres no need to be sneaky about it. It's sexual for you. It's more than "just a foot massage". She won't be fooled because your attitude and your persistance will give it away(i had that problem when I was younger). If the relationship is not platonic....by all means ask away. Any physical contact is good and will get you closer to being more intimate with her. Good luck! GQguy
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honestly bro, If you want to be "just friends" then you shouln't try to pursue her feet like that. If you continue to ask then you may wind up messing up your friendship and it will never be the same again. If you value the friendship that you have with her then keep it platonic, friends w/ benefits never work. Good luck Bro!
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I have to agree with RPM. A lot of girls do see their feet as being intimate so you might want to be careful.
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quote:Originally posted by Brandy's Foot Slave: honestly bro, If you want to be "just friends" then you shouln't try to pursue her feet like that. If you continue to ask then you may wind up messing up your friendship and it will never be the same again. If you value the friendship that you have with her then keep it platonic, friends w/ benefits never work.
While it's true that continually pursuing her feet like a hungry animal who hasn't had a meal in months will definitely screw up a friendship with any woman, I do believe that the friends with benefits can work as long as both of you are fine with it. I know this from experience as I have some female friends who know I like their feet and are willing to let me indulge and it doesn't go any farther than that.
You said she has been hurt before so that can be a setback to some degree. However, if you can make her feel comfortable being around you and get her to trust you, then it's definitely possible to get her comfortable with you sucking on her toes, etc..
The best thing to do is to hang out with her and don't expect anything from her. Use humor to bust on her as if she is one of your guy friends, rather than her being someone you're pursuing with some ulterior motive. We tend to act quite different when we're pursuing someone we really want on any level and we don't even realize we're doing it. We're too busy trying to "say the right things" in the hopes that "it will lead somewhere". This kind of behavior comes off as phony and prefabricated. Better to just relax and treat her like a bratty little sister. That's more natural than to be uptight and try to say the right things to her in the hopes that she'll be open to you when you finally ask if you can do stuff to her feet.
Putting it out there in the open and expressing your thoughts verbally is a sure way to kill any chances at all of indulging in your attraction you have for her feet. Relax, lean back and just have fun with her by busting on her and don't worry about trying to say some magical thing that will open the door to her being responsive to what you'd like to do. Having fun, being light-hearted and relaxed shows you're comfortable with yourself and with her because you're not worried about saying the right or wrong things to her, as most guys probably have been when they were pursuing her. This relaxed vibe is infectious and it will begin to rub off on her. Relaxation leads to comfort and trust as time goes on.
Once comfort and trust have been established, it's much easier to not only give a woman a foot massage, but to also do other things to her feet as well. If she truly is sexually open and expressive, then you just taking action with no words expressed and sucking on her toes while giving her a foot massage, once she is relaxed and the comfort and trust between you both has been built, won't be an issue.
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