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I apply the same priorities to strangers on the street as to relationships, namely that the main focus has to be on the person-to-person aspect and everything else such as breasts, feet and what restaurant to go to revolve around that. With a stranger in public person-to-person means some respect for her space, at least unless and until I get some idea how she might feel about my attraction. But with a couple of good intensive stares I can take a mental snapshot of her feet and shoes and surf on it later at home. And that seems alright because I'm telling myself that I'm showing my great respect for her by not being a bother to her and just worshipping from afar.
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Honestly, candids have never done a thing for me; I prefer that whoever is showing me their feet is doing it willingly because they know that it will have a strong impact upon some viewers. Anyway, most candids are grainy, out of focus, shot from poor angles, etc; I don't want it stolen from them but offered voluntarily.
As for what I think is the thrust of the question: A woman is a smörgåsbord (sorry, spell-check just came up) of visual treats. Nevertheless, one must meet others on an equal footing (please pardon the unintentional pun) and, in this, eye contact is most important. Steal your glances where you might, that is human nature, but treat everyone as a person first...objectify them later.
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