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I have personally always been 100% direct about it and just said, "I have a foot fetish." I have never once gotten a bad response in my entire life, and I have always been able to just do whatever I wanted straight away. Of course, I understand that not everyone will respond well to it, but I think that being direct is often the best approach.
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I always start from day one. I'll say something like "I only date women with pretty feet". Usually she'll ask if hers are pretty and make sure they're cute. They usually get the idea. When we hang out I might put their feet in my lap or drop subtle hints, and they usually get it. Women are very intuitive, and we're not as subtle as we'd like to think so odds are she knows. I don't like the term "foot fetish" because it implies a person that can't get off without feet. I like feet alot but I like alot of other things too. For guys that have never been out..don't be afraid. I've never had a response that was bad and didn't end up in some foot fun ;o) Be comfortable with who you are, otherwise she can't be comfortable with who you are. GQguy
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this topic seems to be quite regular and i asked a lot about it when joining the board and found that i got a lot of mixed responses!
reason being is that all women are different and likely to take it differently. im sure some girls want you to be vocal and others may be relaxed and others take some getting used to it.
my advice is that the main thing is to try your best to be very honest and tell your self it is completely to normal to have a FF becasue it is.
secondly, depending on your lady, dont be too pushy to start with. even if she doesnt like the idea at first it is very likely she could be pursuaded if you are simply nice about it (which sounds like you are)
and thirdly, (no offense to us newbies) but take a lot of notice from what the older and more experienced people have to say.
in times of sexual frustration it easy for us to throw our anger around in the wrong places, and the experts who are much more settles down and experiecnes know much more about how to deal with it all!
and also i think this is very important DO NOT NEGLECT YOUR WOMAN'S PERSONALITY! even if you actually have no morals and you're only looking to get some action, concentrating 100% only on sexual desires gets you nowhere! trust me.
be patient and not too serious and dramatic about it. if this gets you nowhere and you've had enough..then reconsider.
all one can do is try! it may even be a piece of cake for you! for me it was a long and hard process to get where i am now but it was worth it!
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