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i just had a quick glance of this topic - and i must say that in every post here there is good advice ;D
Hey, maybe the whole purpose of this situation was for you to start thinking about things from a different perspective, reality looks like you see it with yur own eyes and in many cases vision is somehow distorted...
Believe me, cause i have experienced very similiar situation...and fucked up too. But hey, thats the way it goes...i still get butterflyes when talking to gorgeous gals (really a problem if u blush and get a red cheecks syndrom quickly, but funnily enough, i even got compliments that red cheeks look cute:D)
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She asked for your number so she could ask you to hook her up with a dude who works with your roommate?
Back up, we are missing some important information, now that this situation has gone bizzaro.
Who gave you her number? Was it her, her friend, or your roommate?
Answer that for us in your next post.
Until then, here is my take on you being the middleman.
DON'T!!!
You are going to have to be a dick, a jerk, or a wanker about this, and tell her you aren't going to do it. If you do it, then you just got punk'd.
Girls who dump their boyfriend or relationship troubles on guys do it because they see them as friends, and nothing more. A guy told me a married woman at his job approached him with BS about her marriage. He put that crap back on her, and told her to take it up with her husband or one of her girlfriends, not with him.
Think about it. If a girl sees a guy as a contender, then he wouldn't hear a peep about her woes. She'd be too busy trying to get him to like her instead of showing him how much emotional baggage she was carrying around.
If you really want to screw with her tell her, you are an educated, courteous, decent-looking guy with a job who isn't going to emasculate himself by hooking her up with someone else.
-------------------- You must do what you feel is right, of course-Obi Wan Kenobi Posts: 2662 | Registered: Jan 2004
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I would advise against doing any of these kinds of favors for any guy that isn't a good friend of yours.
She just may be searching, and she may think you are not interested, yet you still hang out with her so she thinks you just want to be friends.
If you are interested in a girl, make it obvious, she will respond in whatever way she feels, and that be that. There's no frustrating mind games, no wasted time, no missinterpretation, and everything remains honest between everybody.
If you were to hook up with some other guy that isn't even one of your BEST friends, that's not being honest to yourself. You don't want to do that, and you don't deserve to have to deal with that.
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quote:Originally posted by aron: I will try to explain to her that I like her and im not going to hook her up with a semi retarded guy that works with my roomate.
Honestly bro, I would probably use that exact line on her. And don't be timid about it either!
quote:Originally posted by aron: well, i just called her, told her i wanted to make up for the day of the car accident, and was wondering what she was doing today. She said she wanted to go walking up mt. sequoya at sunset. That sounds good to me. I will try to explain to her that I like her and im not going to hook her up with a semi retarded guy that works with my roomate.
Whoo Hoo! A nice nature walk at sunset! My boy it looks like you don't even need to pull the old "car ran out of gas" routine here. I think you said it best with that line and should say it the way Ozkar mentioned! Be yourself and try to be a good listener and conversationalist! I think you are going to be alright as long as you don't get into another car accident on the way!
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