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Just wondering for all you married members, or memebers in relationships on this forum,
does your spouse know that you are using a foot fetish forum?
or are you doing it secretly without them knowing?
or was it a secret at first, then eventually your partner knew......if so, what was their reaction? or did they catch you using it? and started asking questions?
So which a) Your partner knows you are using this forum (how do they feel about using it)
b) Your partner DOESN'T know you are using it
c) They didnt know, but then you told them (what was their reaction + Were you nervous to tell them?)
d) They didnt know, but they caught you (did you get in deep trouble? lol)
If somthing exiting happened/or scary, share your story!
would be interesting to see Everyones case..... so EVERYBODY try and reply to this post.
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She knows. When we got the computer I told her directly I was gonna become a member here, not only because it's something nicey spicy to share but also because I hate secrets, they make you vulnerable. At the time we'd been together for two years already and had been enjoying the footfetishthing to the max since the beginning.
The difference between being seen as a desperate freak or just somebody enjoying a healthy sexlife, lies in how open and relaxed you are about the whole thing, as talked about in a few threads lately.
How 'bout you Whyme, does your woman know you're a proud member of our big 'family'?
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my wife knows.. i've posted pics.. and even asked her to look on. at first. no one knew.. but as she and i dated, i told her. and made a point of showing her.. similar reasons as J.J.
she knows of my site too. seen it a few times.. and i've posted her pics on too.
she's not likely to ever join though. not her cup of tea. her initial reaction was that i leave the site.. she wanted feet to be exclusively between the two of us. but later, she realizedi 'm not on here to get my jollies.. and after reading many of my posts.. she sees it more as a social outlet for me than anything. and i don't put here before her!!
it was hard for her to understand how i can be here, yet, crave her feet so much.. but she likes that... and hopes i never stop wanting her.. she can rest at ease!
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My wife does not know, but I just stumbled on this forum yesterday. I am not hiding it and will certainly tell her if I decide to really start participating here to discuss anything that I should share with her.
I am glad I found a forum dedicated to my fetish. I had no idea there were so many of us.
My wife knows all about my fetish and she is great. It took me a while to open up and get comfortable but I am and things are fantastic...
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I was a member long ago before being married. Got lost in the times of a new relationship and got marrried to Kim almost 9 years ago.. We have both been on this site ever since being married. She has posted several pics, and even been on the contribution page a time or two... We love the site and it's a great place to hang out. However, before being married when I was single....I had to hide this web site (LOL) as I only had a puter at work...AHHHH Good times!!!
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i have not been on long but my husband has always known that i was a member here. he didn't want me to post pictures. he has since seen the light and is letting me post. he is even getting involved i LOVE it!
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a) Your partner knows you are using this forum (how do they feel about using it) lol
My hubby knows full well where I am online ... he even has an account created but doesn't frequent much on his own choice - he gets lost in his own hobbies online and doesn't make his way here enough. I have never hid my activities online with my spouse ... I find out in the open is the best way to play the game. He is more likely to trust me if I am honest and up front.
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quote:Originally posted by mmmtoes: My wife does not know, but I just stumbled on this forum yesterday. I am not hiding it and will certainly tell her if I decide to really start participating here to discuss anything that I should share with her.
I am glad I found a forum dedicated to my fetish. I had no idea there were so many of us.
My wife knows all about my fetish and she is great. It took me a while to open up and get comfortable but I am and things are fantastic...
I hear this over and over again and never get tired of hearing it! Each time it's refreshing to hear and glad our community has just made another step in the right direction - welcome aboard, my friend!
-------------------- If feet are your bottom line, you're gonna get trampled...if women are your bottom line, you're gonna get lovestruck!
When she found it, she said "I found that foot site you go to, do you mind if I go there and look around?"
She has seen me on here and always asks what is new or any cool stories?
She somtimes looks around as well. She has even asked me to take pictues so I could post them. She knows my love for her feet and has no issues with me being here to share it with others who love feet as well.
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quote:Originally posted by mmmtoes: My wife does not know, but I just stumbled on this forum yesterday. I am not hiding it and will certainly tell her if I decide to really start participating here to discuss anything that I should share with her.
I am glad I found a forum dedicated to my fetish. I had no idea there were so many of us.
My wife knows all about my fetish and she is great. It took me a while to open up and get comfortable but I am and things are fantastic...
Welcome!
My GF knows about Wu and knows that I don't look at "traditional pornography," but instead foot fetish stuff when I don't see her.
She's fine with it and has been toying with the idea of allowing me to post some of her foot pics she gave me.
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my girl knows about this place. i take pics of her feet specifically for posting. she doesn't come to the site herself but she does enjoy the attention her feet get when i tell her about the various responses. also my friend from work and the former foot mistress she knows about this place and was totally cool about it as is my friend from work.
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I'm getting curious Whyme, what's your story?
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When I first joined Wu's I was single..had to hide the history on my browser in case my friends used my laptop. Then when I started going out with my girl which was about 2 or 3 months after I joined here I was on the laptop one day and she came into the room and asked what I was doing and I just simply flipped it around to show her. She browsed around the site and it opened her eyes for sure...she as well didn't realized there was so many people with a FF. From then on she comes on and reads some people's posts...hasn't joined yet though. As you know by now she has let me post her pics a few times and is planning on future developments with it though
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