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Does Size Matter
Size of the member! This may appear to be a little off the topic for a foot fetish column, yet somehow it is one of the most talked about items among men. This article was spurred on by the email of a particular fan, and that fan appears to have some serious focus on the size of a penis. I was somewhat concerned that a fan would email me without any reference to my wardrobe, feet, or any physical attribute of yours truly, but instead offer a short note regarding my stunt cock! The usual note that I receive that is similar to this usually contains a great deal of flattery, followed by some bragging of their own endowment, and ends with a comparison of how much more they could please me. I find this amusing, as they are likely one of two types of individual. A young man who has yet to understand that size is a very small part of sex for a woman, or middle aged bachelor who is still collecting women as trophies in an attempt to prove his masculinity to the world. This may seem harsh, but it is generally proven time and again in my experience. I have included my responses as well as his as I felt that it might actually shed a little light for some of the men who continue to be overly concerned with their penis size versus their ability to please a woman! Michelle, Your husband's cock is so small. Does that bother you at all? It seems to me that it would not satisfy a woman like you. Kevin Kevin, I get email like yours from time to time, and I usually just hit delete. Today I was intrigued and I attempted to look you up on AOL only to find no profile. My question for you is why with all the women on net, and with all the pictures and video clips of me on the site, would your choose to comment on my lover's penis? While his penis is not small by my experience, and it is not small when considering what is reported to be average for men, it means little in regards to my satisfaction. I have a wonderfully satisfying sex life, and he would be more than happy to allow me the pleasure of another man or woman if I choose. In reference to your questions, no his size does not bother me, and if you could only see or experience what I do you would know that my satisfaction is quite complete. Please do not be afraid to reply, as I would really like to know why this would concern you. Lust Me Michelle Hi Michelle, I am genuinely apologetic if I have affronted you in anyway but a woman as magnificent as you seems to warrant more in my humble opinion. Your legs, ass and pussy are made to be worshipped and it seems to me that a cock of that size is not worthy of your attention. Love on the other hand I trust is a different matter wholly. If your lover is fulfilling you in other ways because of your spiritual connection that is surely something that can't be underestimated. I was certainly not questioning the depth of your relationship nor the bond that you share with your soul mate. Conversely what I was surely alluding to was the fact that a woman as astonishing as you needs and deserves to be pleased on a higher level at times. Again if I have offended you or you mate in anyway I apologize. Sincerely, Kevin (He sent these two items back-to-back without a reply from me. The emails were roughly a few minutes apart, so I suspect that he thought that the second email was some form of improvement over the first!) Michelle, You mentioned that you "have a wonderfully satisfying sex life" and that "he would be more than happy to allow me the pleasure of another man or woman if I choose." May I introduce the following thought as something to ponder in the future? Maybe you have not taken him up on such an offer because you are afraid to be with a man that has more to offer physically. Is it possible that you are afraid of being with another man because you may be left craving his cock and wanting it to fill your beautiful pussy more than that of your lovers. Respectfully, Kevin Kevin, You have not affronted me in any manner, but I am still amazed by the number of men who equate the size of their manhood with their ability to please a woman. Yes size matters to a degree as any woman wants to feel what is entering her, but every woman is different. I have had lovers in my life that were larger, one that was quite large in fact. My personal experience was a mixture of pleasure and pain at accommodating such an item. I have had good and bad sex with men who were average or smaller, and I have had good and bad sex with men that were larger. My personal preferences rely on the multiple ways that a man can stimulate me, but I prefer a fairly thick or girthy penis over a longer one. I find a man that exceeds nine or ten inches and the girth that I prefer tends to cause pain. At times, I prefer to be 'hammered" so to speak, and the length can cause this to be uncomfortable for me. I prefer extended foreplay, orgasms by oral, digital, and penial stimulation, and eventually really good penetration. You continue to reveal very little of yourself in your emails, but you only seem to seek that I answer your concerns with regards to size. I apologize if I can't confirm to you that I long for a man with a larger penis, but I can confirm through my experiences that I have not had my best sex, or my best orgasms, with men of larger endownment. Other women may differ. Some share my view, and there are those that feel the bigger the better. Can I ask why you feel that this important? Why you think that I am missing something? Is it that you feel that you are larger than my lover, and you would like to have sex with me? I have to be honest with you, that I did not really anticipate a reply. I am glad that you did, and I hope that this answers your concerns. I do thank you for being concerned regarding my pleasure as that is certainly a key quality in a good lover! Sincerely, Michelle When you think of the size of your penis, do you ever think of the size of the foot that you prefer? Some like small dainty feet like Genie of www.1geniesfeet.com, while others prefer a larger foot like Maria of www.marianylon.com. I find that others enjoy a foot in proportion to the leg or size of the woman, and Leidy of www.mytoes4u.com would certainly fit that description. Just like you may have your preference for size and shape in a foot, women share a similar variety of tastes in the size and shape of your penis. I truly believe that most women are not as specific about this particular area as you may be about your fetish interest, but there are variations none the less! I think my preference is well noted in the above printed correspondence, yet this would never prevent me from experiencing a lover. I have had wonderful lovers who did not fit my described preferences, and I have had so-so experiences with men who possessed the ideal equipment in my eyes! Please solace gentlemen! Size may matter, but not as much as you would think or fear! Be sensitive and attentive to your partners needs on both the physical and emotional levels and I guarantee it will make this obsession with size shrink beyond recognition! |